If you’re like me, or just curious, you’ll have trawled for hours online trying to find websites about somnophilia that aren’t judgemental or get their information from psychiatric studies done by closed-minded bible bashers!
This will be MY take on the whole scene, and will be both my experiences and fantasy.
Right, if you’ve stumbled on this by accident, or still don’t really know what I’m going on about, I’ll tell you.
I am a Somnophile.
Somnophilia is the ‘condition’ of being turned on by the thought or the act of having sex with someone who is asleep. This also includes the fantasy of someone having sex with YOU in your sleep!
Many people will tell you that this is rare, unhealthy, and the same as Necrophilia – and I’m here to tell you that those people are, for the most part, wrong.
Necrophilia is fucking dead people. While I can see the crossover between the two, most Somnophiles quite like the idea that the object of their desires is warm, not full of maggots and embarrassing gasses, and above all that they may wake up!
Of course there will be many reasons for why people have this fetish and how they carry it out.
One of the biggest things that seem to be apparent about Somnophilia is that it is predominantly the fantasy of females! This could be the submission/control aspect, because it evokes memories of ‘Sleeping Beauty’ stories, or even that by it’s nature, the act of having sex without waking someone means that you have to be very gentle. This is in stark contrast to most porn and most popular fetishes – not to mention most ideas of what constitutes good sex these days.
Another popular misconception is that it is rape. Of course, it can be – but then maybe we should question why people who are unwilling to have sex are in sleeping together in the first place?
Personally, I’ve been fortunate enough now to have had two sexual partners who were also into somnophilia. It was a simple case of it cropping up and agreeing that we trusted the other and wouldn’t mind if they ‘took advantage’ of them in their sleep.
I suspect that somnophilia is far more common than we imagine in modern times, and hopefully more people will finally be willing to talk about this despite it’s taboo status.
A while back I met an eager sub that quickly became a precious play partner. The energy we shared was fabulous. It’s submission divine. From the first session, it was apparent that the power exchange we shared was unique. It proclaimed the longing desire to be owned by me and to be a part of my stable. So, we slowly walked the path. Each time nurturing the bond that was organic. To be owned is equivalent to the sacred vows of a marriage. A life long commitment with mutual understanding. It would belong to me. Fully. Mind, body, soul & sexuality. Everything. Eternally. Just as my sacred Blue & Lily.
From the beginning, I made my first rule crystal clear:
it will serve NO ONE but me.
and it fully agreed and understood my expectations.
We were off to a good start & continued on.
Consideration of my ownership is not given to anyone. I chose Puttana to train. I felt that it too held the same dedicated quality as my Blue and the ability to serve mindfully & unconditionally. As we’ve approached a new year, I’ve learned otherwise. Our friendship outside of our D/s relationship led it to make decisions which in turn severely led me to abort the mere thought of possible ownership. It is a huge responsibility to take one under your tutelage. My time is precious and the time we shared was ours and special. I had great hopes for us. I feel we both did. I gave it many opportunities to attempt to salvage our D/s relationship. Although the pompous and self centered actions it took were full of ego and now covers it’s judgment in a veil of blissful ignorance. Once protocol is breached, there is nothing else left….even when you consider one a friend. I have no hatred in my heart. Life tends to reveal things to us as time progresses. If we listen, you’d be surprise what you REALLY hear. My only wish for it now is I hope it finds happiness as it no longer lies with me. That I give as a friend. Not Miss Lola. While my departure from it is bittersweet. It is necessary…may you find clarity ‘it’ & as time passes you will come to realize what we did have can never be duplicated-EVER it is not something you’ll find in a random turn over of house Dommes. Puttana is now dead. No longer existent. I bid it now a warm farewell.
The story revolves around Oribe Mafuyu and Yamanobe Tomo, who were raised by Tomo’s father at the private St. Mikhailov Academy who was once the headmaster, until when he disappeared. Now the two shojos are taking on the world living by themselves. Because of Mayufu being over a protective “mommas girl” towards Tomo, their classmates tend to tease and make ridicule them to make their lives -literally- a living hell. -insert noticable minor character intros here- One day, on their way back home from school, they come across an unconscious boy after Tomo (acting like a clutz) falls on top of him by accident and sheer coincidence of the precise timing. They decide to take him back home to offer him some hospitality. While the two girls figure out whether this unconscious little boy is a boy or girl, since they didn’t know as he looked in between of a boy and girl, they decide to take the precautionary as suggested by Tomo than to investigate his abdomen just to be sure. Little what they knew during their moment of inspiration, the boy makes a run for it behind their backs.
While Mayufu wanders off by herself to look for the unconscious now live boy she finds that the church dear to them and especially Tomo’s father on fire. Upon entering the scene, Mayufu quickly then attempts to retrieve the “icon”, as it’s the least thing she could save, only until she is then suddenly ambushed and tied up by Mysterious Masked Villain A. For some unknown reason Mysterious Masked Villain A knows who Mayufu and Tomo are and doesn’t believe that anyone especially Tomo isn’t going to come to save her, that is, when the boy who legged it who was once unconscious blissfully arrives and does just that.
The boy manages to save Mayufu in the nick of time but unfortunately runs out of Soma (in other words; BITTY! BREAST MILK!). Fortunately, the nun Teresa appears as well (who was briefly introduced earlier on) and offers her breast milk to the boy, which in while doing so, makes Mayufu reminds herself of an icon she once seen. Re-spawning and replenishing his well-being, the boy, now regarded as a Quasar, to bring forth a magical and deadly scythe like that of a Grim Reaper’s and totally beats the crap out of Mysterious Masked Villain A. Unmasking her in the process and making her flee.
After the sudden battle, Mafuyu tries to thank the boy for saving her, but he tells her instead that “those who can’t save themselves don’t deserve to survive” and that she has to take hold of things on her own (ownage). The next day, little did Mayufu knew, a new transfer student arrives at St. Mikhailov Academy! And much to Mayufu’s surprise, the transfer student is actually the boy who saved her the day before! Introducing his name as “Alexander Nikolayevich Her”, Mayufu tries to convince Alexander (I’ll call him that for now) to spill the beans, but he thinks that it’s better left unsaid for now. When the girls who usually torment Mayufu and Tomo comes up to the boy, he acts all cold and arrogant towards them and proceeds on to make a quick grope towards Tomo’s breast (luckyyy). In the end, he warns Mafuyu that “misfortune falls on those who get near him” and walks off in the campus.
Absolute disaster. Due to the heavy edits done by terrestrial broadcasters almost completely all the fanservice and ecchi/close-to-hentai scenes have been cut out and even ridiculously muted the erotic moaning sounds our female cast makes. Since I’ve yet to read the manga (and the rest adapted into anime series in 2009) I actually couldn’t really understand what the heck was going on at certain times. In fact, as I was streaming this episode, at times the screen would just momentarily freeze, making me think my laptop was acting up, but as matter in fact, it was actually meant to be there to edit out the risky scenes to show on terrestrial TV at the dead of night (srsly nao come on…). But on the bright side, a few ecchi bits where left untouched, such as… the strangely stimulating group hug, a little bug’s eye view of Tomo’s boobs, Mayufu’s expression of her first bondage, Mayufu’s flashy panties when being freed by Alexander and Tomo getting groped by the same boy.
The episode turned out as I predicted it to be. Little action scenes as this is just the first episode, little bits of flashback upon the history of the characters before the series’ time frame, and a little sense of character development. To tell you the truth, at first, when I came across Quasar during my decision of what to watch this season, I’ve always thought of Quasar of being one of those typical action adventure shonen battle series I’ve haven’t seen for such a long time. Until I read the Wiki article that is, when my hopes and dreams were utterly shattered and thus cranks up the perverse side of me (thank you). Haha
The opening is called “Errand” by Faylan, who if you never noticed is the same female artist who sung the opening of Canaan, “mind of judgement”. A bit at a slower pace compared to her singing for Canaan’s opening, but hey, great song there. Ending is called “Pasionate squall”, sung by Ayumi Fujimura, Aki Toyosaki, Minori Chihara, Aya Hirano and Yōko Hikasa. Typically, most of the seiyuus of the main and supporting characters. A little more up tempo compared to the opening, and being performed by the seiyuus of the show, it feels a bit more welcoming than third-party artists if you know what I mean.
Speaking of voice actors, check out the current list of the cast;
Yuko Sanpei as Sasha
Ai Shimizu as Lizzie
Aki Toyosaki as Tomo Yamanobe
Aya Hirano as Katja
Ayahi Takagaki as Ayana Minase
Ayako Kawasumi as Miyuri Tsujidō
Ayumi Fujimura as Mafuyu Oribe
Kana Hanazawa as Fumika Mitarai
Minori Chihara as Teresa Beria
Susumu Chiba as Yūri Noda
Toru Ohkawa as Shin’ichirō Ōtori
Yōko Hikasa as Hana Katsuragi
More notable and obvious seiyuus here. Say like; Aki Toyasaki… Aya Kirano… Ayako Kawasumi… familiar seiyuus this.
As I’ve heard from a certain source that AT-X is planning to air Quasar on the 26th-something this month, with AT-X known for its uncensored anime broadcasting being a digital channel, I shall put Quasar on hold for now and wait till if AT-X WILL decide to air Quasar on their channel and will air the UNCENSORED version, compared to the analogue channels…
Well that’s it for me now. Take care and leave behind the cookies.
If not, YOU BETTER, or SiP will hunt you down and take away your sexy license.
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I blogged a few days about the photo shoot I did with Fat Cat Photography and Andree de Villers as my lovely model.
The photos are finally up. Enjoy!
We started off just goofing around with our assistant, and practicing some well-needed stretches and poses while our photographer set up for the afternoon’s shoot.
Having only been suspended briefly once prior to our shoot, I started off with a fairly basic beginner suspension, Yoko Tsuri (Utsubuse) – Face-down suspension. We snapped a few shots, and seeing as she handled it quite well, I knew what types of ties I wanted to attempt later on.
The second tie I attempted was an Ebi Tsuri. I had seen a few photos recently (and attempted it during for self-bondage) to know that the tie was acceptable. The traditional shrimp tie looked beautiful while suspended.
I then tied WykD_Dave’s Senaka ni Tori, which I had reverse engineered the week prior. It turned out quite well, and I’m fairly happy with its progress in my first attempt at it being photographed. A huge thank you for WykD_Dave for his assistance. I hope I did his tie justice!
Having only done a few single-point suspensions myself, I prepped my model for a single point ankle suspension. She was eager to try it, and once I had her rigged up, she was able to hold it for about 30 seconds before we had to bring her down. We got a few quick shots it as she held up wonderfully! We had a rock-climbing rig prepped for the shoot, and were able to hoist her up and bring her down in a timely fashion.
I had tied a 3-rope Takate Kote on Andree before the ankle suspension and added one more suspension line and a leg tie before putting her up for our final pose for the afternoon. My variant of the Yoko Tsuri (Utsubuse), turned out quite well, and looking back at the pose, I would have added more decorative features – since she reminds me something of a sailboat. Something to keep in mind for future ties.
I’ve added a few candid shots from our shoot, just to give you a glimpse of how hilarious this wonderful team was to work with. Oh, the things you can do with models once they’re tied up and helpless
Overall, it was a great shoot with lots of future ideas thrown about! We’re thinking of doing some outdoor on-location shoots once spring hits. A huge thank you to the assistants and photographers. As well, a huge thanks to Andree for coming out on such short notice! I loved working with all of you – can’t wait till our next shoot!
Oh yes, I definitely do oral. I’m a big fan of oral and I’ve even been told a few times I’m quite good at it, although I’m sure there is always room for improvement.
The follow up question to this is always “do you swallow”… the simple answer is that it depends on how you taste. If you smoke and eat a lot of salami… well I’m not sure we’d end up in bed in the first place…. But I definitely would have difficulty swallowing. In this case you’d better be thinking of some pretty rough force-fantasy sex to get me to choke that down. On the other hand if you take care of yourself and taste good, I like to swallow more than I like to be sticky. I suppose you will need to decide in that case if you want to reward or punish me.
I like oral in a variety of ways. As a slow arousal introduction to sex, as a light domination scene and show of submission or as rough forced-face-fuck hard as I can take it (yes, I’ll probably choke) scene. I can be your sweet little girl and nicely suck your cock, or you can grab me by the hair, force open my mouth and force a deep throat on me until I’m crying and your cumming. Either way it’s pretty fun.
Catch Tomiko our lead star from 9 Muses in The Hangover, you can see her at the 11 minute mark at the cashier she’s on air for about a minute. Good job Tomiko getting into Hollywood, I’m happy 9 Muses has gained exposure for all our actresses.
Now 9 Muses 2 update, we have shot the first few minutes of the film, as we are traveling to various locations for the other scenes. The release date for it will not be until 2011, I know it’s a long time but big productions take time, happy new again everyone for 2010.
