I was faithful, in game and out, to a man I met in the SL world for one year and three months. When I ended it, for his own sake, I retreated from SL for over two months. When I returned I run into him and his ex sub, which he is now back together again. Needless to say, I left SL again for about a month. Upon coming back I find that he now has two submissives, despite us having made fun of the ‘harem masters’ over the year+ I was with him. I finally let him have it over text, and while it helped I still bs’d with him afterward and feel as if I betrayed my feelings of betrayal.
Once again I have not been on SL for about 4 days. If I were to go about my SL life as I did before the breakup; hanging out at the same places, keeping the same hours and friends, the reality of my ex and his new twosome would be in my face constantly. It seems as if isolating myself time-and-again from SL upon those hurtful events has not lessened the pain at all.
Anyone who has experienced a SL relationship that turned RL for a long term period and then broke up:
-Did you take time away from SL? If you did, did you feel more able to handle seeing your ex or the painful reminders afterwards?
-If they have moved on to another partner/s, has that effected you emotionally or your in world habits (such as not logging in, avoiding certain places and talking to certain people)?
-If they have moved on to a new partner, has anyone had it be a friend, or one of their old lovers or even an old lover of yours? If so, how did you react and how have you handled it?
I am really hurting, end every time I log in it seems something new has popped up to make it more ridiculous. I know I have friends at a the Forum who wonder what the hell happened to me, but I just can’t chance going there and seeing him with this new girl. I had gotten used to the idea of him being with his ex, but now to have someone brand new…well I am not sure how I will be able to handle that.
Any advice or even just sharing stories would be appreciated.
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